For one to be voiceless in a relationship means inability to express your feeling to your PARTNER. Believing your partner should read your mind, and know what you want without you ‘’ communicating” clearly. “ If he/she really loves me , they’d know what I need and give it to me “ . Many believe that if their PARTNERS really loved them, they would read their mind, it wouldn’t be necessary to actually ask for what they want.
This is one of the most serious mistakes people make in relationships .Without openness and communication, no relationship can flourish. Effective communication, however, can be a skill you may feel that you, having repeated yourself a thousand times, you have communicated. There are available communication techniques which, in and of themselves can save your relationship.
Not only is it necessary to know what you want and to ask for it clearly ( without producing guilt) it is also necessary to be able to accept either YES OR NO believing it’s your PARTNERS.