It may be very funny telling someone I love you on the first date, planning your retirement together or talking about “us” or “we” prematurely . This applies too much pressure and not planned but done because you suddenly want to do it. And fun from the early stages . In our present world where trust is scarce. Such rush gives a wrong impression of you being a smooth tongued liar.
You should never be the first in a relationship with a guy to “ I love you “ . That’s his job . most girls have done it and regretted it , especially when they don’t hear “ I love you too “ in return .This gives him much less work , once you have said it , you can never take it back. Make sure the guy is in love with you before you utter these three words “ I love you” you will be better off for it ,believe me. Hold off for a while until you know each other better.
Everything that exists in our universe, undoubtedly has a time frame including love. Don’t be too quick to establish yourselves as a longstanding couple when you have known each other just a few weeks . Wanting to pin someone down too quickly to see if he/she is “committed” is like trying to insist cabin crew should serve you their delicious vacuum-packed fare during takeoff. Give it a chance.